If you settle for your wildest dreams, you will be selling yourself short.
"Our book is meant to be suggestive only. We realize we know only a little. God will constantly disclose more to you and to us . Ask Him in your morning meditation what you can do each day for the man who is still sick. The answers will come, if your own house is in order. But obviously you cannot transmit something you haven't got. See to it that your relationship with Him is right, and great events will come to pass for you and countless others. This is the Great Fact for us." Big Book, page 164
While the program is considered a suggested method for dealing with the disease of Alcoholism, there are places within the Big Book where the authors used the word ‘MUST.’ The following is a list of the 40 Musts from the Big Book.